Monday, September 02, 2013

First Presidency Message

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Saints for All Seasons

By President Dieter F. Uchtdorf ,
Second Counselor in the First Presidency

I have childhood memories of a part of the world that could serve as a picture postcard for the changing Dieter F. Uchtdorfseasons of the year. Each passing month was glorious and wonderful. During a perfect winter day, pristine snow blanketed the mountains and city streets. Spring brought cleansing rains and the explosion of green-dressed life. The lazy skies of summer served as a pleasant blue canvas for the blaze of a bright sun. And spectacular autumn transformed nature into brilliant shades of orange, yellow, and red. As a child, I loved each season, and to this day, I love the character and uniqueness of each one.

We have seasons in our lives as well. Some are warm and pleasant. Others are not. Some of the days in our lives are as beautiful as pictures in a calendar. And yet there are days and circumstances that cause heartache and may bring into our lives deep feelings of despair, resentment, and bitterness.

I am sure at one time or another we have all thought it would be nice to take up residence in a land filled only with days of picture-perfect seasons and avoid the unpleasant times in between.

But this is not possible. Nor is it desirable.

As I look over my own life, it is apparent that many of the times of greatest growth have come to me while passing through stormy seasons.

Our all-wise Heavenly Father knew that for His children to grow into the beings they were designed to become, they would need to experience seasons of adversity during their sojourn in mortality. The Book of Mormon prophet Lehi said that without opposition, “righteousness could not be brought to pass” (2 Nephi 2:11). Indeed, it is life’s bitterness that allows us to recognize, contrast, and appreciate its sweetness (see D&C 29:39; Moses 6:55).

President Brigham Young put it this way: “All intelligent beings who are crowned with crowns of glory, immortality, and eternal lives must pass through every ordeal appointed for intelligent beings to pass through, to gain their glory and exaltation. Every calamity that can come upon mortal beings will be suffered … to prepare them to enjoy the presence of the Lord. … Every trial and experience you have passed through is necessary for your salvation.”1

The question is not whether we will experience seasons of adversity but how we will weather the storms. Our great opportunity during the ever-changing seasons of life is to hold fast to the faithful word of God, for His counsel is designed not only to help us weather the storms of life but also to guide us past them. Our Heavenly Father has given His word through His prophets—precious knowledge designed to lead us through the challenges of difficult seasons toward the unspeakable joy and brilliant light of eternal life. It is an important part of our life’s experience to develop the strength, courage, and integrity to hold fast to truth and righteousness despite the buffeting we may experience.

Those who have entered the waters of baptism and received the gift of the Holy Ghost have set their feet on the path of discipleship and are charged to follow steadily and faithfully in the footsteps of our Savior.

The Savior taught that the sun rises “on the evil and on the good, and … rain [falls] on the just and on the unjust” (Matthew 5:45). Sometimes we cannot understand why difficult, even unfair, things happen in life. But as followers of Christ, we trust that if we “search diligently, pray always, and be believing, … all things shall work together for [our] good, if [we] walk uprightly” (D&C 90:24; emphasis added).

As members of His Church, as Saints, we serve joyfully and willingly in all weather and in all seasons. And as we do so, our hearts become filled with hallowed faith, healing hope, and heavenly charity.

Still, we will have to pass through all seasons—both pleasant and painful. But no matter the season, as followers of Jesus the Christ, we will rest our hope upon Him as we walk toward His light.

In short, we are Saints of God, determined to learn of Him, to love Him, and to love our fellowman. We are pilgrims on the blessed road of discipleship, and we will walk steadfastly toward our heavenly goal.

Therefore, let us be Saints in spring, summer, fall, and winter. Let us be Saints for all seasons.

Teaching from This Message

The First Presidency has taught, “Some of the greatest sermons are preached by the singing of hymns” (Hymns, ix). As you discuss this message, consider singing with those you teach one of these hymns or another song about enduring adversity: “How Firm a Foundation” (no. 85); “The Lord Is My Shepherd” (no. 108); or “Let Us All Press On” (no. 243). If you feel prompted, share a time when a stormy season in your life turned out to be a blessing.

Youth

I Was Able to Let Go of My Sorrow

By Juan Zhu

The author is from Taiwan.

When my friends Brother Chen and his wife were baptized into our ward, I was overjoyed. A year after their baptism, they were sealed in the temple, and their son who had passed away before they joined the Church was sealed to them. It was wonderful to see the Chens grow in the gospel.

Then Brother Chen was killed in a car accident the next year. Following the accident, his death seemed to always be on my mind and often haunted my dreams. I woke up in tears and asked over and over again, “Why? Why does the Lord allow this kind of tragedy to happen? Why does such a thing have to happen to this beautiful family?” One day, when I was struggling with these questions, I picked up a lesson manual and read these words from President Spencer W. Kimball (1895–1985):

“If we looked at mortality as the whole of existence, then pain, sorrow, failure, and short life would be calamity. But if we look upon life as an eternal thing stretching far into the premortal past and on into the eternal post-death future, then all happenings may be put in proper perspective. …

“Are we not exposed to temptations to test our strength, sickness that we might learn patience, death that we might be immortalized and glorified?”1

At that moment, I decided to let go of my sorrow and look into the promised and possible future. I saw in my mind’s eye Brother Chen happily reunited with his family. That sight brought me peace. I know that Heavenly Father will give us the wisdom and courage to face adversities.

    Note
  1. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Spencer W. Kimball (2006), 15.

Children

Serving in All Seasons

President Uchtdorf teaches that we should “serve joyfully and willingly in all weather and in all seasons.” In the pictures below, children are using objects from different seasons to serve others. Match the object in the right column with its picture in the left column.

seasonal matching

Illustrations by Dilleen Marsh

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    Note
  1. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Brigham Young (1997), 261–62.

 

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Sunday, September 01, 2013

Look to the Light

 

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Saturday, August 31, 2013

September Desktop Background

This is what the desktop background looks like for September. The only thing that is missing is Labor Day on the 2nd.

Blog Sept

Enjoy!!

 

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Friday, August 30, 2013

On the Web . . .

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For the Mothers:

Uplifting Encouragement – A great blog helping woman realize the divinity of keeping house and fanning the hearth fires. Love it! So encouraging and peaceful to read.

Homeschool Ideas – Make Take Teach has great ideas for saving money and teaching the children

Fun, uplifting and encouraging – Homeschool Mosaics is a wonderful, encouraging, Homeschooling blog. The articles are timely, informative and basic.

A Voice for WomenBellaOnline is full of all kinds of articles for different facets and phases of your life. You choose to receive newsletters, participate in forums, etc. All kinds of topics are available: motherhood, LDS, Homeschooling, Cleaning, Cooking, crafts, jewelery making, etc.

Visiting Teaching Message – Always inspiring and timely. Septembers Message is already up!

Hometeaching Message – =]

 

No matter how busy and crazy life is, always make time for the important things in your life!

 

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Tammy_IM_48x48_thumb2222222About Tammy: Daughter, Sister, Wife, Homeschooling Mother of 7 (ages: G13, G12, B10, G7, B6, B3, G2). Stepmom of 2. Mother in law to two, Grandma to Peyton, Mattix and Andrew. Writer at BellaOnline. Blogger at Latter-Day Homeschool and JuddzWorld!! Happy & Satisfied!!

Internet Safety

As a Mother, I believe in taking precautions and not taking for granted certain rights or obligations as a parent. This is doubly certain for the internet.

First, I just want to put out there that even your cell phones, tablets, game cubes, etc. can pose Internet hazards. It isn’t just the computer these days. I have heard of instances where children's’ friends bring their cell phones over and are sharing their “inappropriate things” with the Children in the bedroom or somewhere else off by themselves. I think our children are too priceless and important to allow them to fall victim to the pitfalls of the internet while they are in our care and keeping. They have all of their adult life to make their own life choices, let them understand the responsibility that comes with internet use. Give them direction and leadership so they don’t fall victim to the ugly side of the net. Covenant Eyes is a resource for Windows, Mac OS, Android, & iPhones, iPod, & iPads.  

Online Safety Tips:

!) FAMILY COMPUTER – don’t allow anyone in the family to have access to the computer in bedrooms or private areas where they can be seen by everyone. I hate having the big ole computer desk in my family room – but, I want to make sure we are all aware of what we are all doing, at all times.

2) Limit Sites and Social Media – we are certainly aware of protecting our children's identity online. Filters are an excellent way of protecting your children from some real dangers.

3) Encouraging Productive Online Time: Education has it’s place in the internet and there are piles of free and priced offerings on the web to engage our children. You just need to make sure that the sites are safe and not inappropriate for YOUR children.

4) Communication: This is a big one – we have spoken to each of our children regarding what they should do if they DO come across inappropriate things on the internet/email/etc. They need to X out or shut the computer off. Then they need to come talk to us about what happened: ie what they were doing when it popped up (just so we know how to prevent it from happening again). We have told them that if they come talk to us right away we can discuss it and talk about it. If we come across it later, well, there will be consequences to hiding it.

5) Knowing passwords and Checking Accounts – This may seem like an invasion of privacy and a child’s rights – but, I know who I am ultimately accountable to for how and what I raise my children to be. It is a good idea to randomly check accounts and make sure what is going on.

6) Know what everyone is doing online and limiting access for certain amounts of time at certain times of the day. You can set parental controls that are password protected. Excellent for keeping your children safe even when you can’t be right on top of them.

7) Have a buddy system in place for younger children – if you can’t sit with them and help them then you need to ask an older sibling to help.

 

Whatever your internet family habits are, make sure your children are always safe from the ugly side of the world wide web. Educate yourself and then your children on all safety matters. I want to help them be effective, responsible adults and that includes helping them be accountable for their choices as children, youth and young adults. Sometimes, just helping children realize natural consequences to choices they make can help them be better equipped to be able to make better informed choices.

 

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Tammy_IM_48x48_thumb2222222About Tammy: Daughter, Sister, Wife, Homeschooling Mother of 7 (ages: G13, G12, B10, G7, B6, B3, G2). Stepmom of 2. Mother in law to two, Grandma to Peyton, Mattix and Andrew. Writer at BellaOnline. Blogger at Latter-Day Homeschool and JuddzWorld!! Happy & Satisfied!!

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Cinnamon Dessert

 

Ingredients:

-2 cans Pillsbury butter crescent rolls
-2 (8oz) packages cream cheese (softened)
-1 cup sugar
-1 teaspoon vanilla
-1/4 cup butter (melted)
-Cinnamon & sugar (I used about 1/4 cup sugar and 1 tbs cinnamon)

Instructions:

Unroll and spread 1 can crescent rolls on bottom of un-greased pan. Combine softened cream cheese, sugar, and vanilla. Spread mixture over crescent rolls. Unroll and spread remaining crescent rolls over mixture. Spread melted butter over the top and sprinkle with cinnamon and sugar. Bake at 350 degrees for 20-30 minutes.

 

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Tammy_IM_48x48_thumb2222222_thumb_thumb_thumbAbout Tammy: Daughter, Sister, Wife, Homeschooling Mother of 7 (ages: G13, G12, B10, G7, B6, B3, G2). Stepmom of 2. Mother in law to two, Grandma to Peyton, Mattix and Andrew. Writer at BellaOnline. Blogger at Latter-Day Homeschool and JuddzWorld!! Happy & Satisfied!!

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Homemade Baby Wipes

Ingredients:

o Plastic container with a tight-fitting lid

o Thick, strong roll of white paper towels (thick, strong and soft and cloth like)

o Sharp serrated knife

o 2 cups water (you can use distilled)

o 2 tbsp. baby shampoo or baby wash

o 1 tbsp. baby oil, coconut oil or olive oil (your choice)

o (feel free to add one or two drops of essential oil to the mixture)

Instructions:

· Cut your paper towel roll in half and remove inner cardboard tube

· Mix the liquid ingredients together in your container

· Place one of the paper towel halves inside the container (top down)

· Place lid on container

· Wait about ten minutes and turn container over

· Let sit for another 10 minutes

· Once the paper towels are completely saturated – you can pull the first towel from the inside of the roll

 

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Tammy_IM_48x48_thumb2222222About Tammy: Daughter, Sister, Wife, Homeschooling Mother of 7 (ages: G13, G12, B10, G7, B6, B3, G2). Stepmom of 2. Mother in law to two, Grandma to Peyton, Mattix and Andrew. Writer at BellaOnline. Blogger at Latter-Day Homeschool and JuddzWorld!! Happy & Satisfied!!